Monday, November 11, 2013
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
12/12/12 My Wish
my husband says..."there is only one thing i'd change about you, and that is how you feel about yourself". who else in the world is so lucky as i to have a spouse that is so loving? that is all i have to do to make my family happy. if i change how i feel about myself, then this will change my behavior. today i look back at last nite and can even more clearly see my wrongs. i dont want this to happen anymore. i dont want to hurt anyone or myself. i dont want this anger and sadness anymore. i want to spread love and understanding and overflow with love and understanding for my family.
there is so much extra stress right now because of money. my husband should not have to deal with my insecurities as well as his stress over money. im so sorry honey...im just so sorry.
i ask you God, please to remove all my defects of character so that i can better to thy will. i wish to be loving and kind to my family, a strong loving stable mother to my daughter and loving sweet wife that makes my husband feel cherished and adored. i've known them both before this life - known them forever...i see eternity in their faces...and their faces are in the middle of a merry-go-round spinning fast through space and time...i want to be in the middle with them but i find myself holding onto an outer bar with my legs hanging off of the edge and trying to hold on, trying to pull the rest of myself up to them but i keep loosing my grip. please help me to gain my footing within myself so that i can join them. i've always been on the outer rim - please help me to be on the inside with the two people i love most in the world. i beg of you.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
there is nothing i want more right now than to crawl into his arms and feel his warmth and love....
beat my head.
squeezed the bones in my fingers together until i feel pain then "stuff" my crying deep inside me.....i had to do this multiple times last nite until the crying stopped.
got into huge "leaving" fight with my husband....took a few klonapin and aparantly fell asleep and woke this morning to one leg out of my pants and bra off.....
i was still upset from last nite and got into fight with husband again after cleaning kitchen.
went into van for a while so i could have a place to cry.
came back inside and asked if he would also like to speak civilly to eachother again......he said yes.
now we are feeding outside kitties........
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
...as i grip the floor
-sept 11 rode the wave of the change in my husband and began surfing on my own.
-1-2 weeds later exaltation fizzled and stress set back in.
- began fighting again late sept and early october.
- a few occurrances of "the threat' in late sept and through october.
- stressful aniversary.
- fighting
- feeling like i want to die again
as this is a very brief synopsis of what has happened, i am giving very little info here.
my general mood today.....staring up into mania as i grip the floor while i cry my soul out.
Friday, May 25, 2012
It Might Be Time To Grow Those Suckers On My
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
casualties of war
you know,...it's fun to "southernize" names.....yeah it's kinda funny but spoken with a soft and slow tongue, many southerny type names are quite beautiful....like take you for your name for example, lets southernize it.....Joan....Joanie...Jolie...Jolene.....yes that's it.....actually i'm quite partial to the name Jolene.....it's beautiful....... Now see, i'm a Southern Girl myself so of course being exposed to country and western music in my formative years (actually this particular song was Olivia Newton John's fault) did draw my attention to a song in particular that i think may apply here......you know the whole thing yes i know...but just a few key notes i want to point out in a few lyrics:::::::
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And I can easily understand
How you could easily take my man
But you don't know what he means to me, jolene...Please don't take him just because you can.....
mmm....sad song really.
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it is my prayer, it is my sin,..... it is my crime, it is my punishment,........ my penance? as with so many things i do ripple upon those around me, i can't help but see Dolores's demise as a trumpet call of what i do not know yet. Dolores, you died new years....what does this mean.....? i will bury you under a rose bush variety named Blue Moon.....magnificent beautiful blue.......gentle friend.....spark sister......i will miss you and your love. i am so very, very sorry.
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Tuesday, June 21, 2011
summer solstice
Thursday, December 23, 2010
another day of up and down
Saturday, October 9, 2010
TOTEM
A Promise to a Pig ... ducks and pigs ... smells like an epiphany....
the ring on my lip will be to remind me of the promise i made to myself - that i can no longer endure the taste of suffering - nothing unholy will pass this ring and go into my body.
the book to act as a guide in helping me attain physical wellness.
but the Swarovski crystal lucky pig ornament....now it makes sense.........oh dear,... holy shit...and wowww!
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Acorns and Eagles
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i wait all day, every day, on pins and needles....waiting to see if sex will occur.
it excites me and makes me feel so special when you ask me something.......anything.
i think i misake pain for pleasure....therefore i am unable to enjoy a gentle touch....it's like feeling no sensation and receiving only frustration.
i wish i didnt want to enjoy myself so much................
Sunday, October 3, 2010
OCTOBER 3,........
the day Zoe and I left Texas......2009
2010.......................?
-------last nite...in the middle of the nite,....Digger and I were sleeping in bed - Digger on Dennis's pillow - suddenly he jumped up and scrambled to the opposite side of the bed and looked all around as if something startled him. Digger decided to lay across my feet and sleep there instead - he refused to lay back down on Dennis's pillow . since i was awake i decided to just glance over in the direction in which he became startled and found that i was too unnerved due to the face, shadows and soft inaudible voice i was perceiving. i turned the tv on to serve as distraction and i dozed off - only to be awakened by the watchful eye that patrols the hallway outside the bedroom door.
scrambled brains and ham
extreme pressure and mind scrambling....i felt movement within my brain. something was being activated remotely.
machines in his eyes; - i told him i saw them. they were scanning me and sending back info to the "mainframe". he told me he's not the gov...and that he is a messenger of god instead and was quite defensive about it.
About This Morning.......................
the planet's funniest animals; - tool for conditioning and mind numbing - televised animal abuse.
too much pork im sure....of which human meat makes up a high percentage of the pork product market....particularly sausage type processed meats.
Thursday, September 9, 2010
just take it a little bit at a time - too fat to fuck (reverse decision)
my periods have stopped since my miscarriage in late June. i had light spotting in early September.....and a couple of days ago i had an ovarian cyst rupture in the middle of the nite. i crave so very badly........as usual.......nothing seems to satisfy me........i dont even think that if i had intense, painful and mind blowing sex every single day; i dont think that would even render my cravings a period of cessation. i'm writing notes to my love now.....like a girl in jr. high.......but i cant speak of the things i think about.....i can only write about them.....and only on paper - so that it may be easily crumpled and lost - possibly thrown away accidentally; possibly tossed asunder and rendered captive by a piece of unfrequently moved furniture for years and years and only found after my death------when it will all be too fucking late.
i cry - full of sin and sadness - as i write all of this.
so often.....every day.....i just want to fuck blindly.....fuck for the sake of fucking.....fuck so i can feel the physical sensations that are involved with the mamalian reproductive process that is involved for my species....fuck because it feels so fucking good.....fuck because my body craves the sensations.....and fuck because it gives my sexual organs the much needed exercise that they need in order to function properly.
just a quick observation that i've recently noticed.......funny how when i was a child....lets say beginning with infancy and ending at age 17, i couldnt keep them off of me. their hands, their mouths, their bodies, their penises,......it always seemed like i was always in a state of having to defend myself - always trying as hard as possible to keep my thighs tightly shut so that i could not be welcoming any hand or finger - mouth or penis - always making sure that i wasnt accidentally asking for it.
sara.....just take it a little bit at a time baby...just a little bit at a time.
i know there are so many people out there who want to fuck and suck all nite until their bodies are exhausted and raw....i am one of them....i want to be violently fucked for hours...the way it used to be before i was old enough. i want by body to be animalistically desired that way again.......i think. i say this,....but sometimes he scares me even if he's very gentle.....so this makes no sense to either one of us......
since u got a little bit more than u asked for........
hope you're up for the challenge,.....my love.
Monday, September 6, 2010
sin
a way to heal a wound that cant be seen.....
a chance to nurture me......
i make the outside match what's within.....
...my most mortal sin.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
falling
things fall into place,......so perfectly-
so soft is the cradle,......so soothing-
can you hold me forever,.....you promised........-
im terrified.......im shaking.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
lock and key
in the basement, ....like children we go explooring....he pulls out a lock and gives it to me.....tells me he came upon it haphazardly.....then pulls a pair of keys from the closet and gives them to me.....tell me boy, what does this all mean....
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Saturday, February 20, 2010
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Im Sorry Im Not Like I Used To Be.
things took a turn for the worse.
im trying to grab a hold......
im trying to feel my way back with a new pair of glasses
Saturday, October 3, 2009
today i move......
Saturday, August 8, 2009
animal maintenance.......went relatively well....considering.
my house stinks of dead tooth.......
Thursday, August 6, 2009
THE SICK CHICKEN
found a chicken tumor in my chicken....it was in the breast....it was rubbery and gross.....i hated it.....i wanted to examine it....but i was driving......i hated it......the whole chicken tasted weird and the meat was super sub par....the taste was very off.......KFC gave me a sick chicken....
in the nite....hell hath fury upon my teeth and dealt a blow of pulsating madness upon my swollen face....upper right wisdom tooth horror.....
Michelle needs a new heater core.....she's worth so much more....i love her.....she gives back to me so much love in exchange for gasoline.....slowly my dear, slowly we will get there, bit by bit i'll get u healthy again....
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
hummingbird magic
Friday, July 10, 2009
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Painfully Beautiful
last week......
a young man came to my house asking if i knew who the owner was of a very old female dachshund....i took a look at her and i did not recognize her. i told the young man that if he cannot find the owner he can bring her back to me if he cannot keep her. a couple days later, he was back at my door with the dog....i told him i will either keep her or find a more suitable home.
right away it was very clear how old she was and she was also clearly deaf. she was quite fat and had an adorable personality. truly...a great dog. i just knew that...with my plans to move in the spring and also with her age surely bringing a multitude of health problems, ....i was unprepared to properly care for all her future needs. i set to work right away at finding her a proper home.....particularly before i had a chance to become very attached.....(i was already picking her up and cuddling and kissing her on the face)....(DANGER...DANGER...ATTACHMENT...HEARTBREAK....FIND NEW HOME IMMEDIATELY!!!) so yeah....i didn't waste any time.....
actually, the next day i got a reply from a family that seemed like the perfect fit. i spent a good deal of time on the phone with the mother and it was very clear....this is going to be her forever family. i was overjoyed.
zoe and i met the mom and the 2 kids...13 and 16....in a parking lot in Allen to meet and greet. the moment i brought the dog out of the car the 13 yr old sun reached out for her and scooped her up with professional snorggle luvin....he murmured between sobs....."Mom,.....she looks just like my Maggie...oh Mom" and he cried more.......this boy held her so securely and lovingly and the dog weaved her long snout through the maze of the wavy, fire red hair on this boy. he kissed her face and looked into her eyes and said..."i love you so much sweetie".......well...if that's not meant to be,...i don't know what is.
i blubbered quite a bit over this and we all just hugged and it was a truly positive experience. i felt so good about what i had done. ............. until i got home..........
it was about 15 minutes after i returned home when an elderly man knocked on my door......i came out to greet him. still riding on the high from the earlier rehoming success i was all smiles and happy faces when he asked me his somber question...."i heard that you are the one who might have my sweet old girl....do you have my sweet girl?" i felt my entire body split in half right down the middle starting with my skull. think quick..quick .. quick!!!........i deflected responsibility stating that a friend took her for me because it wasn't working out and i cant get a hold of her, and how "i sure hope she hasn't found a new home for her yet." oh man i felt soooo awful. he told me how much he missed her and how everytime there is a storm she gets out and wanders off, and how he needs to fix her pen so she cant get out anymore...and how this happens all the time....how she's 15 yrs old and he's had her since she was a pup etc, etc. hmm......i felt really very bad, but i can assure you, this dog will never, ever again be "getting out during a storm"...ever again, nor will she be "in a pen". i got an email from her new family saying how she found her favorite "special bed" in the son's room...(i had a feeling about those 2).....when she has medical problems she will be going to the vet......they are not at all annoyed by her deafness and they have money and other rescued dachshunds and rescue cats that she's all made fast friends with.....
i cried and cried over this because i felt so bad for the old guy......but see if i had Digger Piggs outside in a pen.....and he got out all the time.....someday i would not expect to ever see my dog again and it would be my own fault.....that is why i keep my Piggy inside cuz i dont want to ever, ever loose him. nobody is perfect...by any means....but this is my reasoning....the way i have to look at this situation in order to not destroy myself emotionally.
i think i did the right thing......i feel i did the right thing.......life is hard....and life sucks....but it can be beautiful ......painfully beautiful.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
that cat is a chicken...and my fingers im a licking
6/23/09.......(2)......
im gonna cast a spell on you
med change today...(my request).\\..positive.....lithium 450mg/, haldol 2mg/, all else same.
there is so much to do....where do i even start
Monday, June 22, 2009
monday, june 22, 2:02pm
black comedy
i planted marigolds today....lemon drop...
very very bright and very hot today
Sunday, June 21, 2009
the longest day of the year
schedule and repetition is vital for me to function and proceed.
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Friday, June 19, 2009
muscle ....shattered......broken and tossed asunder.....muscle rebuilding itself .....repairing from previous injury.....splinting the break or tear so that it does not fall back into it's previously injured position.....the shattering regrows stronger....need to feed the proper nutrients to assist in positive regrowth......if infection sets in, it creates a scar or lesion that is irriversible........
i speak and think in jazz....erratic jazz....but without the pleasure of music.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
taking a guess
TO KILL A MOCKINGBIRD.......i want to try a new reality
feeling very alone....feeling like im very on my own.....
outside kitty caught a young mockingbird and it was injured beyond repair....desperately struggling for help it wearily bobbed it's head begging for help as kitty tormented it....with a couple hard whacks of the machete i ended it's suffering so that it wouldnt have to endure anymore death play.....outside kitty went right to eating. i did this without hesitation which is what makes me so nervous. am i killing...or am i ending suffering? it takes very little effort to take the life of a tiny creature....am i doing it a favor or am i doing something else (of which i dont know what it is)....i do know that it invades my dreams....it reoccurs in daily life (various situations that involve killing, euthanizing, accidental death, murder...). is this because i live in "the country" or is it because this is part of the reason why i'm here on this earth...part of my life lessons....to encounter death so intimately....to watch the intense suffering that, i for some reason am cursed to witness, occurs preceding death - then to look upon the bruised, shattered and screaming remains of what is now a gory display of a corpse after the soul has left. death was not silent or peaceful for anyone or any creature that i have had witness to it's passing. my mother's death was somewhat peaceful during her last few minutes of life - only because she had so much morphine and other drugs in her system to help her not be physically conscious of her passing...but she still wanted to breathe...she still tried i think.....for me........as i looked upon her empty body her skin quickly began to change color and reveal the physical trauma that it had suffered within the last month....i had to leave her side sooner than i would have liked but only so that my last view of her wouldnt be of her face turning blue....it was beginning so quickly and i had to go within a few minutes...do other people encounter so much death?....are other people so directly involved in the death of loved ones and pets?....my father was never able to be present during an animal euthanization....arent men supposed to be stronger than women? what lesson am i to learn from all this? my mother always told me to read or see the movie - to kill a mockingbird - to this day i still dont know what it is about - but i performed the act myself....perhaps this is my own version....my own story.
ive had very low energy for days. not really sad or depressed....tho when something bothers me it's more intense. need coffee to have energy.......no periods.....severe itching from excessive mosquito bites that drives me into neurosis.
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
phone call
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
perceptions
info from the left ear babble - negative - no control - past - lower vibration
started 3 sisters garden today...about 1 in the afternoon....i sat under the pecan tree as i worked the ground into a mound in which i planted corn and peas. how exciting. i cant wait to see what happens....i hope my hose setup doesn't have problems. the way it is now makes a bit of gardening such a joy.
Monday, June 15, 2009
Saturday, June 13, 2009
some perception
Monday, June 1, 2009
Saturday, May 30, 2009
MAKE IT STOP!
Friday, May 22, 2009
recent visit
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Monday, May 18, 2009
Saturday, May 16, 2009
consolidation
the problem with today...
Monday, May 11, 2009
mother's day festivities
mother's day began with a grumpy child - due to staying up all nite - and a bit of bickering...... next, while i was trying to get ready for the day a nuisance person stopped by to beg for a bowl...after the irritation of him had left my premises...i continued my efforts to ready myself for the day.... it was then, while sitting in the doorway of the side porch, that i heard the hard and loud THUD noise..... i looked up to see a silver truck driving off and in it's wake a flopping animal in the road. another highway casualty.... i summoned Zoe to bring the garden cart out to the highway to remove the animal - my purpose of removing it from the road was to decrease any temptation for my dog's special investigations activities.....i dont want to be dragging him off of the highway either......so we discovered it was an extremely large orange and white male cat....which is apparently the father of my beloved Rebekah (according to Alex)........ we carted him back to our graveyard and gave him a temporary burial until tomorrow. we came back inside and i finished up my makeup......then discovered that Zoe had fallen asleep.....hehe...figures....u know what...i take all these events as a sign that something would have gone wrong today if we had gone out.....everything happens for a reason.......we decided Mother's Day is tomorrow...when things are less crowded....is it right....i dunno..but it is what it is.....
Friday, May 8, 2009
water and electricity follow the same path - joining together to make a wider and more easily maneuverable stream....
they hammer....they speak out.....the 2 men working in the living room discussing how to finish the construction on the walls. they go on about personal matters...as much as men do. this is what i feel through the vibrations in the floor...what i hear with my ears.....and what i can see with my eyes.......frightened and eager to confront the trespassers i quickly run to the room....no one......i race over to the window to see who's truck in in the driveway.....none....only my car and silence whispering through the harsh sun. maybe all the rains...all the humidity....maybe it all provided the right conditions for a manifestation from the spirit realm....perhaps the addition of electric and ion change because I've turned on the a/c window unit......perhaps these conditions make it more conducive for me to perceive energies....whatever it is...it's working.
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Friday, April 24, 2009
choices
a question of life.....a question of what is my place.......how do i choose life or death within the realm of animal guardianship........
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
on religion...
we are the very privileged owners of a brief spark of consciousness and we therefore have to take responsibility for it. ian mcewan
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
easter
thinning out peaches ...... jesus cried his wee eyes out all nite here in north texas because of the ovehwhelming conservative christian majority and thier antics
........so for celebration all the church easter egg hunts will be a bloody and muddy mess with frolicing little girls and boys wearing mud covered white clothing
the day's light
frustration
she showed me that not only I struggle with gloom and frustration, but others close to me do as well. she rolled her eyes and walked off when I said that I felt like in my case it was abusive.....is it because I am a mother?
Monday, April 13, 2009
pain
horrible pain .... pelvic pain .... ovary, siatic, hip joint and back disk pain .... severe muscle spasms in back. pain has centered mostly in the right hip area. lots of tingling feeling .... like the sensation of blood filling capillaries and veins .... trying to feed starving muscles. very heavy bleeding on Friday and Saturday. it rained Friday, Saturday and Sunday....off and on. hail on Sunday nite. thinking about birth control pills again. gotta do something.